THOU SHALL NOT HURT PERIOD/EXCLAMATION.
HURTING = VIOLENCE, period yet again.
- MAR. 2011- Still on, and strong! (no, no! no way strong!)
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- DEC. 2010 - i am trying to get my stuff on violencenojoke.org
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- (i will add until my breakdown or the site's!)
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1. the first line of defense against any violence is a "safe haven"; a safe shelter (a peaceful retreat) which has space to freely relax and revive (free from violence, threats, disruptions, etc.) after outside exposure (work, school etc.).
2. second line is selective exposure to outside world (remember that advise: and that's not the place to go!). no doubt it's a dangerous world!
3. third could be to be very selective human relationships (remain in your CLASS as animals stay in their packs). harm, abuse and exploitation can be done very easily. lot of abusers/scum around-so watch out!!!
5. psychological harm may include ptsd, depression, paranoia, acute stress disorder, hyper vigilance and sleep disturbances/nightmares.
add-on notes
(strictly my views- i even won't mind any duhs!):
14 Dec. 2010: violence can be avoided by smart choices (selective relationships and exposure) and primarily by securing a safe and private "shelter"
15 Dec. 2010: my definition of violence: it is basically "force" which is in excess and is unjust (direct or indirect), employed to cause harm. i believe any forceful event that leave you terrorized, hurt, even in disarray it is violence.
violence is derived from latin=violentia "vehemence, impetuosity," from violentus "vehement, forcible".
exact english definition:
- rough or injurious physical force, action,
or treatment: to die by violence.
- an unjust
or unwarrantedexertion of force or power, as against rights or laws: to take over a government by violence.
another great definition is given by WHO:
"Violence is the intentional use of physical force or power, threatened or actual, against oneself, another person, or against a group or community, which either results in or has a high likelihood of resulting in injury, death, psychological harm, maldevelopment, or deprivation."
so there you go; as before take care!
18 Dec. 2010: yet another blow; the team in dire straits now!
i believe life is a battle; a battle between good and evil ( human vs. beast or barbarian). what we have to do is not to kill the beast but to tame it; control it for ourselves and for our generations and world humanity as whole. we have do our small part of our jobs no matter where we are in the world. i am very hopeful good will prevail, even if it's assumed that there is no god.
if sometimes the world violence and vices can beat hell, trust me goodness, peace and pleasure here can beat heaven as well. the vices are many (violence, profligacy, malnutrition, over-population, illiteracy, disruptions and what not and what not co.) but just look at the good side (knowledge, information, creativity, intelligence, dignity, morality, abundant resources, persistence, etc.) we should and must win.so hang in there (tightly) and do you part. good luck!
here's another quick idea: if governments help build and provide smart, and cheap shelters, and enforce discipline in them, i believe it will help a lot against violence (the biggest vice on earth).
19 Dec. 2010: very good and creative and beneficial people are stuck in bad housing system which force them to hang-in and limit there activities so far as it becomes a mere "survival game".
here's my idea of an ideal shelter (1 floor-1 house) to avoid "indirect violence"
20 Dec. 2010: confinement fear struck hard as the battered victim battle ******
21 Dec. 2010: real tough goings, uncertainty prevails
here's thought of the day: foreigners/immigrants are more susceptible to violence and harassment (and it can even work reversely as well) because of oddity factor, so again shelters come in play. therefore, also segregation and checks in people flows are important.
i wonder what is outrageous for you, but for me something that has moved me, ruined me, and terrorized me is "domestic violence (both direct and indirect kinds)" and interestingly i am a man writing this.
i know depriving one of sleep and also economically is a kind of domestic violence; i wonder if relaxation deprivation is too
22 Dec. 2010: a life mauled by violence; a story of terror!
i wish i could get free to educate myself more, and be valuable to goodness; but surely evil is a tough opponent to compete against and sometimes even survive. there should be no doubt that that i ll continue hanging in and that's the best thing i can do for now
maybe that should not be even the focus for now, as real kinds of violence take lives or ruins life; but we all have to buckle up, and start thinking about these menaces. trust me violence no joke.
23 Dec. 2010: violence unconfined! damage unconfined!
when Caesar saw the daggers of conspirators he reasoned, in fact argued: "Why this is violence!", but they killed him out of jealousy and oddity as he was noble and talented unlike them. so jealousy, i believe is the main drive behind any act of violence. it's a shame that even after such disaster thousands of years back (other tons of violent disasters, for instance second world war), humanity has failed in controlling "violence", let alone wiping it out altogether.
Okay, another touchy point: western world is superior in every sense of the word (save morally), and many people from third world countries long to attain the high standards of western world's life, but is that suitable for them and even for westerners, is it a safe deal!
i think immigration should be given on the basis of education and talent and not on the basis of monetary worth. stringent standards should be set for talented scholars, and once they fulfill those tough requirements they should be given immigration (at least to people from backward and inferior nations) and not just a visit visa. They should be out rightly given the reward of immigration because once they adapt and get aligned in the west, it's almost suicidal to return back as they will face a violent clash of culture and class.
here's two more signs against violence:
24 Dec. 2010: a respite, a break from violence but marred by panic and stress
anyone in an abusive relationship or whoever is facing domestic violence should be given an easy option of alternative housing/shelter. this shelter should be resourceful and must obviously be secure and private, and from their victim must consider his/her choices and options without any fear or influences.
there's must be an semi-governmental and trustworthy organization providing this sort of service, security and support. many resources are allocated for other issues (non-issues), why not something effective and real be done to combat domestic violence and protect "good and innocent' people.
as always "keep hope alive!"
25 Dec. 2010: hints of breakdown, but the victim carries on!
a big hope for every one: wikipedia. there was some policy by the slogan: "no child left behind"; here's my idea for wikipedia's slogan: "no evil left unexposed!"
i won't praise wikipedia, flatter it and make it meek and humble. what i would rather say: "keep up the great work, and kick evil's ass off by exposing it to the whole world!'
03 Jan. 2011: god! anyways:
first things first: population control first. who will care if the poor African and South Asian countries not only control child births, but altogether halt marriages. Then secondly violence and vices should be tackled with whatever laws and policies.
what ingredients make a high class: education, morality, dignity, nobleness, altruism, compassion and yes money as well.
as before beware of dregs who are reigning!
here's a bit from a blog on violence:
But that doesn’t mean that the common man is lucky enough to be spared. Some of them were targeted for their ethnicity, some because of their sect while some died only because that is the price they had to pay for being the residents
courtesy/source: http://blog.dawn.com/2011/01/03/an-unconventional-war-zone/
11 Jan. 2011: survival of the meanest!
i was very astonished and used to get frustrated while studying the jews helplessness during second world war in my history courses. i mean nobody came to their rescue and even they never put up a real fight; but indeed they were unmatched in front of those barbarians. now when i experience life i more and more get to the conclusion that every single being here is endangered and selfish (even i am) and also stuck in their own fears and crises. in that case protecting someone else puts them in a vulnerable condition as the world is meant to be the survival of the meanest.
but still i will order: the violence, the vices, the degradation; by dawn they shouldn't exist!
13 Jan. 2011: it's the class that matters!
my breakdown is underway so don't expect me to make classy comments; but i believe a low class person can never benefit a high class person, but only easily would abuse or hurt status.
a quick note to the victims: protest is your right so abandon marriage, jobs, even rituals until you achieve your standardized rights!
good luck and let luck help you!
20 Jan. 2011: violence of any kind is an ample proof that god just might not be in office
seriously speaking everywhere in the world people are crying: "god! where are you!" because they don't deserve all this. i guess it will take at least 100 more years for men to get in safety and order; the hope is there, never greater because of this technological revolution, but shockingly many many people would die in the mean time.
take care!
04 Feb. 2011: copy/paste:
http://au.reachout.com/
15 Mar. 2011: abusive + selfish parents = DESTRUCTION
there's a school by the motto: perseverance commands success; i would say parents are the real commanders. what i am today (successful or "ruined") is primarily because of my parents.
The Key To Detect Violence Is By Applying The "Force And Effect" Rule!
people/ rules assume that only assault and battery are true violence, but my experience and readings at WIKIPEDIA tell that violence comes in many forms/sizes. They key to detect VIOLENCE is to ascertain the level of force applied by the aggressor/abuser (direct/indirect-intentionally/carelessly) and then see the effects of such forceful actions.
man its sometimes impossible to make sense of somethings ( or some people) and maintain yourself.
16 mar. 2011
click here for the whole list of abuses
or copy/paste:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abuse
31 mar. 2011:
fear of the "unknown" actually, for the most time, is the fear of the "violence"
Definition
The definition of work related violence that has received pan-European acceptance is as follows:
“incidents where people are abused, threatened or assaulted in circumstances relating to their work, involving an explicit or implicit challenge to their safety, well-being or health”.
This definition establishes violence as a behavior with the potential to cause harm. Broadly speaking there are three forms:
- Non-physical violence (intimidation, abuse, threats etc)
- Physical violence (punching, kicking, pushing, slamming etc)
- Aggravated physical violence (use of weapons, e.g. guns, knives, syringes, pieces of furniture, bottles, glasses, etc)
07 April 2011: the difference is clear!
25 April 2011: from my experiences i can say that there are 3 kinds of person's safeties.
1. PHYSICAL SAFETY
(free from harmful and dangerous environment; flourishing and developing in a resourceful and entertaining environment.)
2. EMOTIONAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL SAFETY (freedom from harm cause by manipulation, and verbal abuse etc.)
3. CLASS/STATUS/INTELLECTUAL SAFETY (freedom from any relation and interaction with low class heretics, and commoners)
AND IT SHOWS!!!
1 MORE THING:
1 MORE THING:
30 April 2011: know your 2 basic rights: SAFETY AND WELL-BEING.
it cant get more simpler than this. every single human must be given these basic rights whether he/she exists anywhere in the world; or they mustn't be born to suffer. these days with violence raging at every level (family, community, nation, world), social injustices, crimes, vices, and yes wars, life becomes a classical example of a hell storm.
it cant get more simpler than this. every single human must be given these basic rights whether he/she exists anywhere in the world; or they mustn't be born to suffer. these days with violence raging at every level (family, community, nation, world), social injustices, crimes, vices, and yes wars, life becomes a classical example of a hell storm.
6 May 2011: There are 3 kinds of VIOLENCE THREATS that exist in social places:
1. DOMESTIC/SPOUSAL ABUSE (violence and harassment an individual might face inside home in the hands of spouse or family members)
2. COMMUTING/TRAVEL/PUBLIC VIOLENCE (violence, harassment, crimes and class harm an individual can face on busses, cabs, trains etc. while commuting to work or on streets)
3. WORKPLACE VIOLENCE (violence, bullying, interference, discrimination, and harassment an individual might face while working in office, stores, etc.)
Basically every-single where. i have thought of a solution. provide good people with easy to get shelters and as far as the behavior is concerned implement strict ethical and westernized education ensuring no offense and abuse and respect of law by every single one.
1. DOMESTIC/SPOUSAL ABUSE (violence and harassment an individual might face inside home in the hands of spouse or family members)
2. COMMUTING/TRAVEL/PUBLIC VIOLENCE (violence, harassment, crimes and class harm an individual can face on busses, cabs, trains etc. while commuting to work or on streets)
3. WORKPLACE VIOLENCE (violence, bullying, interference, discrimination, and harassment an individual might face while working in office, stores, etc.)
Basically every-single where. i have thought of a solution. provide good people with easy to get shelters and as far as the behavior is concerned implement strict ethical and westernized education ensuring no offense and abuse and respect of law by every single one.
18 May 2011: AND THEY CAN'T TAKE THAT AWAY! Actually they can! watch out for the abuse and harassment everywhere: home, office, public places. what they take away is your space to relax and be free and eventially your "well-being" and development gets ripped apart. That what's so dangerous about social violence.
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